Judging..

So I still don't get why people judge a person based off of what someone tells them. Really one should only make their own opinion about someone after meeting the person, themselves. I'm sick of hearing people have all these friggin judgements of people they've never met, but merely heard others rattle off about them.

It's worse when these people who've never met that person will then go on to tell that person who complained about them to not hang out with that person anymore. Grrr people grow up..seriously you might just be a bit older than a normal middle school kid now.

I always try to make judgements of people myself after getting to know the person. I knew a girl in my lab known as the bitch to everyone. I actually thought she was alright and talked to her quite a bit..till the day I saw her other side when she did me wrong, and then I started hearing all the other bullshit she pulled off..then I realized and figured hell she is a bitch. Before it all,I was one of the few in the lab who actually talked to her.

I guess I learned myself..and I guess it's my curiousity or the fact that I like to figure things out myself. Some people may just be too lazy to care..

**I will note..I'm a hugely opinionated person and I'm proud to be one. All my opinions are based on enough situations to make me make some type of judgement..though I don't always try to generalize.